Mine is rarely clean or pretty. lol But we think my husband can be used to it now.

Mine is rarely clean or pretty. lol But we think my husband can be used to it now.

Additionally, i’ve for ages been in a inter-racial relationships, never ever dated any black males and locks wasn’t a concern. Its just any. Oh you ought to view “Something brand New” that movie is loved by me!

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  • We may get stoned because of this.

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    But we notice a great deal women from the board (at the very least a great deal to me personally) have caucasian others/husbands that are significant. can you have the want to develop your locks very long so you to look more european in terms of hair that you can compete with white women?? Does your caucasian SO/husband ever ask questions like “Why don’t a lot of black woman have long hair” or try to persuade?

    lsubabiedee

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  • We may get stoned because of this.

    But we notice plenty women from the board (at the very least a great deal to me personally) have actually caucasian others/husbands that are significant. would you have the have to develop your locks very long so you to look more european in terms of hair that you can compete with white women?? Does your caucasian SO/husband ever ask questions like “Why don’t a lot of black woman have long hair” or try to persuade?

    i dont have the must long grow my hair to contend with anybody. I dont see longer hair on white women for the part that is most. my therefore could care less in regards to the amount of my locks. he had never expected us to straighten my locks, nor has he seen my locks right, me to do anything to my hair that i didnt want to do so he has never tried to persuade.

    i genuinely dont date guys that suffer from my hair. They are dropped by me aided by the quickness.

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  • We may get stoned with this.

    But we notice a great deal women from the board (at the least a great deal to me personally) have actually caucasian significant others/husbands. can you have the want to increase your locks very very long so you to look more european in terms of hair that you can compete with white women?? Does your caucasian SO/husband ever ask questions like “Why don’t a lot of black woman have long hair” or try to persuade?

    ebonylocs

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  • I believe many (intelligent, open-minded) males, of whatever battle, never care much by what you are doing to the hair. On it, or if it looks especially raggedy, they might comment on it if they like a style, they might comment. Otherwise, at that since they are with you, they probably like how you look, think your hair suits you, and leave it. OR they may make a hassle you are ALREADY in the relationship if you make a big CHANGE at some point when. I am in relationships with expansion braids, normal long and short, Wave Nouveau short and long, relaxed quick and long, & most guys did not appear to notice a good way or perhaps the other.

    oobrittany: in the event that you carry on “nappturality.com”, online Adventure dating a site for Ebony females with normal hair which includes a definite black colored empowerment theme taking place, you’ll find that a big (possibly disproportionate) wide range of females on the website have white / other partners. And threads will always started about how exactly white partners appear to help a big change to hair that is natural than black colored men do, or exactly exactly how on going normal, the sheer number of black colored males attempting to holler decreases whilst the wide range of white males checking you out increases.

    Given that will not be *my* experience, and I also do not know when it is totally real. But as another poster commented, it may possibly be black colored dudes who will be more hung through to the concept of “long”, “straight” or “good” locks – as a result of all of the baggage that is historical carry. Even though many white dudes simply think about black colored locks as different things and maybe cool.

    OP: you won’t be sharing to your boyfriend just just how “we” for example. black colored women, do our locks, but how *you* do the hair. Not totally all black colored ladies unwind, deep condition, or utilize plenty of locks items. Some simply perform some minimum. What exactly you do to the hair on your head is a piece of *you* that your particular BF shall learn after a while.

    nelli711

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  • I have been with my boyfriend very nearly 5 1/2 years in which he is white. He knew nothing about black hair before me. Hair was not a big deal to him. Yes, he has got expected a couple of concerns about “our” hair once the relationship ended up being answered and new their concerns so we left it at that. He couldn’t care less like I have to compete growing my hair out with white women if I was bald, so no I do not feel.

    Now. he understands a great deal about hair about it, only because I love to talk about hair because I talk to him . From the a tale he explained lately, he had been in the office and him and a few white females got from the conversation of locks, and another associated with the females had produced remark that black colored hair doesnt grow and just just exactly how our locks remains quick and then he said to told them that black colored hair does develop and went into this big conversation about black colored haircare. LoL we ended up being impressed!! All of the occasions when I speak to him about locks and items, we never truly thought he had been really paying attention in my opinion. He gets therefore tired about me personally dealing with hair to him but I do not speak to someone else about any of it because no body else knows. In general, I happened to be pleased he educated a lot of them white females a small bit about our locks.

    sweetwhispers

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  • Now that is not experience that is*my* and I also have no idea when it is entirely real. But as another poster commented, it might be black colored dudes who will be more hung through to the concept of “long”, “straight” or “good” hair – as a result of all of the historical luggage we carry. Even though many white dudes simply consider black colored locks as different things and maybe cool.